Unlocking the intricate world of conflict resolution is like embarking on an emotional journey, where each step carries the weight of our needs, perceptions, power dynamics, values, and the most potent element of all – feelings and emotions. Today, we dive deep into the heart of this labyrinth. It’s undeniable that feelings and emotions hold the reins in our conflicts, often hidden beneath the surface or openly raging. This blog unravels the profound impact these emotional undercurrents have on our ability to resolve disputes.
All conflicts share similar ingredients, which may vary in degree, but most have some presence of them. The primary ingredients include Needs, Perceptions, Power, Values, and Feelings and Emotions. Today, I am focusing on feelings and emotions.
Feelings and emotions often exert a major influence on how many people deal with conflict. Conflicts can also arise when people ignore their own or others’ feelings and emotions, or when conflicting emotions and feelings emerge over a particular issue.
I started with “many people let their feelings and emotions become a major influence…” In reality, all people have emotional responses to conflict. Some are simply not honest with themselves. Pride significantly drives emotions. Regardless of the value in dispute, feelings and emotions impact the ability to resolve a conflict.
Whether you’re navigating personal conflicts or striving for harmony in your professional life, understanding the role of emotions is key. Are you ready to take charge of your emotional journey in conflict resolution? Connect with an experienced Mediator like Ken Strongman and embark on a path toward peaceful resolution by reaching out here.
About the Author: Ken Strongman has years of experience and a growing national reputation as a mediator and arbitrator. He has successfully resolved more than a thousand disputes in the fields of construction defects, real estate, intellectual property, and employment. He is also a Mediator and Arbitrator for FINRA and president of The Mediation Society.
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