What do good mediators do?

What do good mediators do?

  • A mediator quickly gets all sides to build trust in the mediator so that:  They believe and understand what I need to accomplish with them at the mediation. As mediator, I’m their new best friend by the end of the mediation session so that I can persuade them to do things in their best interest and to listen to me as a mediator.
  • A mediator manages the process so power is not considered to be one sided.
  • A mediator is a good listener so that ever one is heard.
  • Conversely, a mediator is selectively deaf to comments that are counter productive.  A good mediator re-formats the incendiary comments to keep the processing moving forward.
  • A mediator makes all sides aware of the needs and motivations of the other side.
  • A mediator educates all parties to their opponent has reasonable needs and motivations.  I start this process before the mediation and continue it through to resolution of the dispute.
  • A mediator educates each side on the worst case scenario if there is no resolution to the dispute.
  • A mediator will use what ever means is reasonably necessary to resolve the conflict.
  • A mediator helps all of the parties to resolve the dispute.

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By Ken Strongman

As a full-time, Mediator and Arbitrator since 2004, Ken’s overarching purpose is to leave the disputing parties in a better position than when they came to him. Ken works to unite people into purposeful and unified directions, actions, and efforts by getting under surface appearances. By doing so, he facilitates the parties in developing their unique solutions. Disputes addressed include business, securities, construction defects, real estate, intellectual property, employment, environment, energy, and trusts & estates.